Sadness & Depression
Anxiety & Stress
Life transitions & Changes
Desire for deeper awareness
Relationship conflict
Communication Challenges
Premarital Preparation
Child or Adolescent Behavior
Autism
PTSD
Separation & Divorce Adjustment
Infidelity
Grief & Loss
Parenting
School or Work Performance Struggles
Trauma & Resiliency
Eating Disorders
Disorders Eating
Body Image Struggles
Sports Performance & Stress
Somatic Experience
Our clinical team is trained in Counseling Psychology or Marriage and Family Therapy. Both degrees prepare our therapists to work with individuals, couples, and families. Our therapists have training in various techniques and use numerous therapeutic modalities to work with a variety of concerns including, but not limited to:
Counseling
Counseling and psychotherapy are excellent as a wellness practice, not unlike yoga, meditation, and exercise. It is a great way to deepen self-awareness and cultivate more satisfying ways of being your best self in the world.
MENTAL & EMOTIONAL WELLBEING
Our emotions, mind, and body react to our environments. They often work in unison at lightning speed. This is why we often find ourselves confused after the fact as to how we reacted in negative ways. We “know better,” but we keep finding ourselves acting in ways that create pain for us. We take that one more drink, we agree to go out with our party friends, we meet with the prostitute one more time, we purge our last binge, or we skip yet another meal. Whatever the choice, we are practicing our addiction and causing a myriad of pain for ourselves and those who love us. Counseling can be a way to unpack why we act the way we do and get to the deeper emotional and bodily reactions we are having so that there is room to choose something different.
SUBSTANCE ADDICTION OR UNWANTED BEHAVIOR
Grief cannot be avoided nor can it be short circuited. Therapy can be a safe context to explore all of the confusing and painful emotions that grief brings. Whether it is anger, sadness, regret, fear, or even happiness, in this space you can be fully yourself with someone who will listen and not judge you. Oftentimes, when we are attempting to talk to others about our loss, they become anxious and out of their attempt to make their own anxiety go away say some pretty insensitive things. Counseling can be a space where you do not have to take care of the counselor. Instead, they are there for you.
GRIEF COUNSELING
We get overwhelmed. Our mind races or it just goes blank. Our emotions surge or seem to go numb. Our bodies ramp up or go limp. We may have some idea why our beings are reacting this way or maybe we aren’t sure why. Therapy can create an environment where you can become aware of how you are responding to a certain situation. By slowing down using mindfulness strategies a therapist can help you become aware of the sense of threat that you are reacting to, and give you practical tools for helping you soothe and calm your body & mind in stressful situations.
ANXIETY/DEPRESSION THERAPY
Trauma therapy creates a safe space to experience the full weight of past harm without reinjuring the client. The therapeutic relationship and self regulation skills become the “container” that allow the client to express what happened, explore the impact of that event on the present, and begin to place this story in the context of the rest of their narrative, honoring its impact and the intrinsic strength of the client. Integral to this process is an awareness of the body’s experience both past and present, and learning techniques to soothe the body. Along with talk psychotherapy, we have therapists who specialize in therapy modalities that are used to directly treat trauma including, EMDR, AEDP, and Sensorimotor Psychotherapy.
Trauma Therapy
Individual Counseling
Adult therapy at The Phoenix Counseling Collective is often a long-term process. Weekly or bi-weekly appointments work best to establish the safety of the therapeutic relationship, which is critical for true change and transformation to occur. There is typically a catalyst for you to begin therapy, but you have had years of experiences and interactions that have shaped who you are. Therapy is a great place to begin to process those interactions and experiences, to develop an understanding of how and why you respond to the world around you as you do, and begin to choose something different, thus creating a new story for yourself.
TIME COMMITMENT FOR COUNSELING
Person-centered
Attachment Based
Neurobiologically Informed
Relational Psychodynamic
Narrative
Mindfulness
Family Systems
Sensorimotor psychotherapy
Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
Internal Family Systems (IFS)
EMDR
Depth Oriented
Accelerated Experiential Dynamic Psychotherapy (AEDP)
COUNSELING TECHNIQUES MAY INCLUDE:
The therapist will get to know you and what brings you into therapy. They will go over confidentiality, informed consent, and the logistics of appointment length and policies, but more importantly they will be asking you about your goals for therapy and what you are hoping for in the process.
WHAT HAPPENS IN THE FIRST COUNSELING SESSION?
What can I expect from individual counseling?
Child & Adolescent Counseling
Parents are typically in the room during the first session. Beyond that, it’s different for each situation and will be determined between the parents and therapist. Your child’s therapist will provide insight of the therapy process, including the relational aspect of sessions. Family therapy may be applicable, in order for your child to exist within the "system" of their family. Parents will be provided with tools to support your child in the home and school environment.
It is important for caregivers to take an active role in the therapeutic process for change to take place. It can be helpful for parents to have some strategies to utilize to help their child. It is important that both the therapist and the parents are using the same type of language when discussing emotions and experiences. The more consistent both parties can be with the child, the more change can occur. At times, it can also be very helpful for parents to be a part of the therapeutic session to learn skills such as non-directive play therapy, as well as observing how to create space for your child to explore their emotions and experiences.
WHAT IS MY ROLE AS A PARENT IN MY CHILD’S COUNSELING?
Work in the relational framework is meant to be long-term in order to develop rapport to explore depths beneath behaviors and symptoms. It takes time for your child to build trust and a relationship with the therapist. Once the relationship has been more established, more work can then be done.
TIME COMMITMENT FOR CHILD & ADOLESCENT COUNSELING
The therapist wants to get to know you and your child. Parent(s) will be welcomed back to the office in order to discuss intake paperwork, confidentially, informed consent, and logistics. The therapist will ask about your observations of your child’s behaviors and symptoms as well as your hopes for therapy. A conversation will be had about what future therapy sessions will look like and the level of parental involvement the therapist recommends for sessions.
WHAT HAPPENS IN THE FIRST COUNSELING SESSION?
What can I expect from child & adolescent counseling?
Your therapist will also be teaching you about childhood development and attachment. They may suggest books for parents to read themselves to better understand their child and the dynamics that may be playing out with the relationship.
Psychoeducation:
Your therapist may read books or suggest books to introduce coping skills, emotions, and to normalize an experience.
Books:
This therapy utilizes figurines in a tray of sand to help children (actually, this can be used for clients of all ages) to help express emotional content.
Sand Tray therapy:
Drawing, painting, creating can be a great way to explore what is occurring internally.
Art therapy:
Children tend to be in-tune with their body and can express things in play that they struggle to articulate with language. Play can be a way to process internal experiences and emotions and bring them to the conscious surface.
Play therapy:
COUNSELING TECHNIQUES MAY INCLUDE:
Couples counseling creates a safe space for each partner to explore their individual emotions and reactions to each other. The therapist creates an unbiased context where the goal is not to decide who is wrong or right, but instead create a conducive environment for being curious and bringing clarity to your relationship. In the end, the goal is to come to new understandings of oneself and one’s partner and find new language and ways to have old conversations, thus creating intimacy and strengthening the relationship.
Therapy provides a professional perspective that may provide insight and understanding towards relationship barriers. There are a lot of cultural and societal misconceptions and myths about what relationships should look like, and couples counseling can help normalize what you experience and free you up to co-create the relationship you both want.
Your intimate relationship has a huge impact on you as an individual and on the wider system of which you are a part. Helping you build a healthier relationship can have ripple effects far wider than just you as a couple.
Couples Counseling
We offer intensive couples and family therapy that can be tailored to fit your needs. Some clients are unable to come in on a regular basis, and others have a more pressing crisis. Our clinicians are capable of working with you specifically or in conjunction with some of the other clinicians in the practice to provide support, skills, and a way forward through your specific issue. Some possible areas that may need to be addressed are:
